Lesson 1. If you don't ask you don't get;
Lesson 2. You'll be surprised at how much you get when you ask. You'll be thrilled, thankful, and moved to tears, all at the same time at the generosity of fellow bloggers with their opinions and thoughts;
Lesson 3. You CAN get counsel from people you haven't actually met. People who meant well and are so sincere and forthcoming with their advice.
That's all good to know. Thank you.
Here's the summary of your thoughts and suggestions, in no particular order, and some further comments on them: